I must confess in the last 2ish yrs I've pushed people away, not letting people in to know my problems. I've had people come up to me asking me how I am doing, so thinking they are being sincere I tell them only to get the feeling from them that my problems are petty, not worth while. They are my problems and therefore they are important to me, even if they are not important to you. So before you spew out the phrase, 'how are you?' Regardless of how that person response be prepared to be a real friend and support them! If that person is important to you then their problems should be important to you too so show your love and support them. Hold their hand or lend them your shoulder to cry on . . . plain and simple be a friend and support them!!

People may wonder why I don't have very many friends and this is why. I know there are folks out there that has gone through more than my family and I have but for me and my lil world this is big, and important to us. In sharing some of our trials I've gotten the feeling that those 'friends' who ask me how I'm doing don't really care cause I have been made felt like my problems are petty and I am making them into something huge when they are not that big of a deal. 'Friends' that I thought would be supportive and help me made me feel like I was not even 2 feet tall and now worth their time and energy. REALLY? So due to that I have, in my mind unfriended you, and some of them even on facebook.

Now that I feel that I am ready to face the world again I still feel this way. So if you know me please be patient with me and if we are friends, than act like it! Stop making me feel this way I so don't need that!!